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The best pain relief – God’s Love applied by your partner

Saturday, August 6th, 2011

I stopped being impressed by “miraculous” healing done by humans on earth long time ago. This happened after I realized that Love, coming from God, is the utmost healing power. The only prerequisite is to have someone, yourself too, open for God to let Him do the actual healing.

The first step toward this realization was the story that happened almost 10 years ago.

In October 2001, we spent almost a month on the beautiful island of Busuanga, Philippines. That month is the precious gift I ever had, because we spent all the time with someone who knows God and who has been continuously teaching and spiritually counseling us ever since – our Guru.

The place we stayed was a small garden type resort, where we were treated more like family members rather than tourists. So, we had all the time just for us: to start real husband-wife relationship. My wife was very open for God and got some precious gifts in addition to all the rest.

One day one of my teeth broke at the base ( I had a crown installed just month before and obviously the tooth had been filed too much at the base ) and I went to the local dentist to pull out the roots left in my lower jaw.
The extraction took around 45 minutes with 3 injections of anesthesia.

After all pushing and pulling, on my way back, I started already regretting that I visited the dentist. When I got to our cottage I suddenly remembered that the day before Guru told my wife that pain can very easily be “removed” from the body. I asked my wife to try to relieve my pain with God’s help. So, I lied in bed and my wife bent over me. I closed my eyes and opened my Sahasrara Chakra. And suddenly all pain went away – it was gone forever!

That was the most amazing thing that had happened to me so far.

Later on I have been shown how Love changes people’s hearts and lives, which just strengthened my faith – Love is the complete solution for all because God is Love.

God bless you.

How to help yourself with hospital bills and doctors bills

Monday, July 18th, 2011

How to get help and help yourself with hospital bills and doctors bills

We all do mistakes and they are always costly. But sometimes a single mistake can ruin someone’s whole life. This publication is intended to give you some practical help on dealing with hospital bills and doctors’ bills. I have gone through this twice in my life and learned how to solve such matters within shortest periods of time. All the options below are based on my personal experience and have proven to be successful.

The options mentioned only apply for people WITHOUT HEALTH INSURANCE.

Lets start with the first story:

In Autumn of 2004 our younger daughter was diagnosed with leukemia. We were out of the country when she went to ER of the largest hospital in Saint Petersburg, Florida and then she was moved to “All Children’s Hospital” in the same city, for eventual treatment. She underwent chemotherapy and got back home in a month. After a week or so the bills started to fill our mail box and we immediately started taking care of them.

First thing to make you aware of is: hospital bill is totally separate from doctors’ offices bills.

Hospital bills

From the hospital you get one bill for anything that has been done, no matter where you have started from – ER or operation room.

All hospitals have financial aide programs ( might be called differently, but is the same thing) to help people with low income or in need. The scale varies from hospital to hospital, but if you are family of 4 with annual income $24-30 000, you will be eligible most likely. So, find who is in charge with that program ( charity or financial aide) and get an application as soon as possible. Different programs have different requirements but be ready to submit proofs for income, bank account statements, and other papers if needed.

Doctors’ offices bills.

You will get as many bills as the number of doctors involved in your treatment. Even if a specialist comes and asks you a few questions.

Start taking care as soon as possible

Very important: avoid phone calls and physically go to the office, face the right person and solve your problem right away. Be ready to pay what you negotiate on the spot. In almost all cases, the right person to talk to, is the office manager – other employees have no power to take decisions. If the manager has no time for you the same day, set an appointment for soonest time later.

Fortunately God always guided me to the right people. In first office I visited, I spoke to the billing specialist there – a very generous person, who understood my situation and revealed before me some important information:

Many know that people without health insurance are being billed at the highest rates. Yes, that is a phenomena but is right. So, she billed me at different scale, as if I had Medicaid. That was a tiny percentage from the initial bill – more than 20 times less! And she also explained to me that it is normal for many offices to just transform the initial bill to another one on the computer. It happened with two other offices later on.

Explain your situation and ask to be billed at different scale ( it does not matter that you do not have it) – Medicaid is best choice.

In another office, my bill there was some $9 000, I set an appointment to see the manager the next day and when I talked to her for a minute, she lowered my bill down to $2 000. I told her that I do not have such money and she said that they will set payment plan for $20 a month. We had some emergency money in the bank account and I offered her $1 000 at the moment, instead of waiting 8+ years for the amount to be paid off. She agreed and I paid with my debit card.

I know that such kind of bargaining may not look worthy for some people, but I am also aware of many very high charges in the health system ( like $500 for a short visit ) as well as some high salaries, which can not be justified. And we are simple working people.

In the last office I dealt with, I encountered zero understanding and I told the manager that I want to see the head of the office – the doctor under whose name the office was operating. They told me that the doctor is very busy, but since I insisted on my right to see or talk to him, they set appointment for telephone conversation a few days later. And when the doctor called I asked him for mercy and I got it.

All the above happened in my home town – Saint Petersburg, but there might be different scenario: when you are away from home.

The second story:

Last year, as a result of gross negligence, I broke my leg in Washington, DC. I underwent surgery and stayed in the hospital for 3 days due to weather conditions.
As you already know, first thing with the hospital was to ask for their financial aid / charity program. So, I got an application and took it home with me. I filled it out at home and sent it by registered mail to their office. A month later I got an approval.

With doctors bills was different because there was a separate billing company in charge with all doctors’ offices bills and I was not able to go for negotiation to all the offices due to my condition.

There is 1 month period, within which you can discuss your bills with them. After that you deal only with the billing company. I could not get their manager on the phone to discuss some of the charges and the payment method ( was funny because the option they had was to pay $8 000 bill within 6 months and I was out of work with broken leg) and finally I quit.

A few months later I got a letter from collection agency. I called them and
explained that some of the charges are abnormally high and I can not accept them and I am not going to pay such bill.

If your bill goes for collection you can make deals with the CA. In my case from 8 000
the settlement was for 4 500, and I had 1 month to pay it off. I told the collectors to send me all details by mail and that I will let them know whether I accept the settlement or no. Then I called the billing company and they said the settlement is for $4 000 and I have 1 month to pay it in whole. As you see the collectors just put extra $500 upon me. 2 weeks later we had 4 000 and I paid the bill over the phone.

Another option to get help is Medicaid

Medicaid is for everybody and it differs from state to state. So, you need to check your eligibility with your home state and file an application. The program covers individuals from different social groups and will pay all your bills 3 months back from the time you file the application if you are eligible. Even people with high income can get help from it. It may also pay your bills from another state ( Florida Medicaid does it ).

In my first story we did not meet the residency ( 5 years for the state of Florida ) requirement to get all covered by Medicaid. And for my second story I did not have dependants to be eligible.

Bankruptcy

You can always file bankruptcy and start new life from scratch if you are ready for this. This could be your best move.

The final words: be open, be honest, ask for grace and mercy to get your normal life back and learn from all the mistakes.

God bless you.

The importance of simple life for overall well-being and happiness

Thursday, July 14th, 2011

After 11 years spent in the USA we decided to return back to our native country Bulgaria. We were aware of the difficult economy situation and all changes after the country joined EU, but there was one important point to consider: to simplify our life by moving out of high tech and highly-developed environment and go back to more natural one.

Fortunately, there appeared an opportunity to live in a village, close to the 6th largest city in Bulgaria, where my wife could eventually start her practice as pediatrician later on.

So, it’s been already 2 months since we started our simple life.

What we have now:

  • clean and healthy environment

The village is located partially on hills and surrounded by forest, which makes air fresh and clean. The picture below gives you better idea

village view

View of Bogomilovo village

  • healthy food and water

Some of the food is coming from neighborhood and our garden: milk, eggs, some vegetables and fruits. The water is from mountain springs on the hills. This makes big difference in the quality. First time since many years I ate fruits from the trees or ON the tree. One of the water sources on the picture

Mountain spring water

Clean mountain spring water

  • far less technology resulting in peaceful neighborhood

We also contributed to this point by using 3G internet connection, which is just one USB stick for the computer – no cables and equipment around the house.

  • far less self created environment pollution

Maybe 90% of all is recycled straight back in the nature ( in the ground )

  • far less rules and regulations ( I have not seen law enforcement people yet )

This last point makes me feel really GOOD. Just imagine: to live in a place where, to a great extent, you can freely move around, nobody calls police or no police at all. And I really enjoy walking through the fields and the woods.

walk through nature

It is a great pleasure walking through the nature

  • and finally we have garden to work in: several mature fruit trees ( cherries, apricots, pears, apples, figs, sour cherries, almonds, walnuts ), strawberries, vegetables, herbs and lots of flowers.

All of the above had huge impact over my entire being: I feel myself fully balanced emotionally and mentally, and physically much younger.

Such a life style helps also to significantly reduce our overall expenses.

God bless